Monday, December 29, 2014

Beautiful

Assalamualaikum darlas!

Motip sangat kan tajuk nak propa sangat.
Well, i wanted to be random today. Just feel like throwing some random words somewhere somehow.

Happiness.
Positive vibes.
Hope.

These three words perhaps are the keywords into sustaining life.
These are merely my view.
Somehow, while randomly surfing and blogwalking and stalking (mwahaha), i came across a statement by a kid telling his friend about chemotherapy.
He somehow said chemo is rather a last resort, moreover, the chances for survival is rather low.
Well boy, sorry kiddo. I hope you should've kept those words to yourself.
Walaupun ayat kau mungkin bermula dengan "not to scare you but...."
Nampak macam positif kan?

TAK!
Pernah dengar "Kata kata itu bisa kebih tajam dari pisau"?
Ye. Those words you have just uttered can possibly "kill" them way faster.

On chemo being a last resort or whatnot, i wouldnt want to comment deeper on that cause i have no qualifications or much knowledge in medical whatsoever. I agree that my opinion is opposite than yours as i have a sister who survived stage FOUR, mind you. And first option she had was, yes, chemo. So, again, i beg to differ.

Akan tetapi, sungguh la rasa terhiris bila terbaca those kind of words towards a patient's family member.
Please, boy, PLEASE! Dont ever utter such words ever again.
The patient. His/her family. Friends. Their heart had already been crushed with the fact that they are to endure such a heavy test. How could you add their sorrow with that kind of statement?
Cant you instead share hopes?
Cant you instead share some positive vibes?
Cant you instead share good news, happy stories?
They need those. Not negative remarks.

Its the happines, hopes & optimism shared that drives them back up, that pulls them from that fall, that made them sustain longer. Trust me, i know how crushed it was to learn that your beloved person is suffering a critical stage of life, battling between life & death.
Jatuh.
Terduduk.
Rasa macam.........

But Alhamdulillah, i have been blessed with such beautiful people around, who tirelessly spreading love & courage & positive words.
THAT was the tnings that pulled me back up.
And my beloved person suffering was even more amazing, that she endured it and survived it!
Ask me how she did it?
Yes, besides usaha & doa, being happy & positive was what she did best and brought her back to "life". Alhamdulillah!

So please, people. If you came across anyone saying they are sick (yes, applies to littlest kind of sickness too!), or anyone saying their family is sick or whatnot, share with them beautiful hope & happiness! They need those pretty much!
I believe, it'll really help! In sha Allah.

Let's spread some love, shall we? ^_^

And. Pray for the flood victims. Pray for QZ8501. May Allah bless us all. Amiin!

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